When the Believer Asks: "Why Did God Choose Me and Not My Father? Was It Random?"
He was sitting in a Bible study, newly come to faith, and asked with genuine honesty: "I hear Calvinists say God chose me with no cause in me at all — not because of any faith He foresaw, not because of anything future He knows about me. That sounds like blind luck to me. And if that is true, why did He not choose my father too? Does that mean God created my father to go to hell for no reason?" This was not a hostile question but a real spiritual crisis. And the biblical answer gives him what he needs: God did not choose arbitrarily — He chose in the light of His complete eternal knowledge of who would believe in Christ. This does not cancel divine sovereignty — it establishes it in perfect harmony with the justice and love of God.
"Elect According to the Foreknowledge of God the Father" — 1 Peter 1:2
The first thing that stands out in Scripture is that the apostle Peter — when he identifies the chosen believers — specifies the basis of their election with a plain expression: "Elect according to the foreknowledge of God the Father." (1 Peter 1:2). "According to the foreknowledge of God the Father" — this phrase does not translate to "according to the arbitrary unconditional will of God without any cause." "According to" means "in line with" or "on the basis of" — meaning God's prior knowledge is the foundation on which the election rests. And "foreknowledge" (prognosis) in context points to God's knowledge of who would believe in Christ when the gospel was presented to them — and on the basis of this knowledge they are appointed. The Calvinist argues that "know" in Scripture sometimes means "love" or "choose" rather than "know in advance." But this argument fails in 1 Peter 1:2, which explicitly joins election and foreknowledge as two distinct things: "Elect... according to the foreknowledge." If they meant the same thing, the verse would simply read "elect according to the election of God" — but adding "foreknowledge" is deliberate and distinguishes the two concepts.
"Whom He Did Foreknow, He Also Did Predestinate" — Romans 8:29 in Detail
The verse is clear: "For whom he did foreknow, he also did predestinate to be conformed to the image of his Son." (Romans 8:29). There are two distinct verbs: "did foreknow" and then "did predestinate." The golden chain of Romans 8:29-30 begins with foreknowledge — establishing logically that foreknowledge existed before predestination and formed its basis. The Calvinist who says "foreknow = foreelect" makes the verse read "whom he did foreelect, he also did foreelect" — which is a meaningless tautology that adds nothing. But if we understand "foreknow" as "know in advance who would believe," the verse says something genuinely meaningful: on the basis of His eternal knowledge of their faith, He predestined them to be conformed to the image of His Son. And the purpose stated is telling: not merely who would be rescued, but who would be transformed into the likeness of Christ — a purposeful calling to spiritual transformation.
"Chosen to Salvation Through Belief of the Truth" — 2 Thessalonians 2:13
The apostle Paul confirms in another letter that election does not bypass faith but runs through it: "God hath from the beginning chosen you to salvation through sanctification of the Spirit and belief of the truth." (2 Thessalonians 2:13). "Belief of the truth" — belief is faith. The election accomplishes itself "through belief of the truth" — through faith in the gospel. The channel of election passes through faith — and this proves that a person's faith was not absent from the eternal picture but was present in God's knowledge. The apostle Paul does not say "He elected you before your existence and therefore you will inevitably believe." He says "He chose you for salvation through belief of the truth" — meaning belief is the path or instrument through which election is realised. This subtle distinction matters enormously: Calvinism makes election the cause and faith the effect — but this verse indicates that faith is the channel through which what God chose is accomplished.
"Known unto God Are All His Works from the Beginning" — Acts 15:18
The eternal knowledge of God is not subject to the limitations of time and space that confine human beings. Scripture declares: "Known unto God are all his works from the beginning of the world." (Acts 15:18). "All his works from the beginning" — a comprehensive knowledge that excludes nothing. This means that God in His eternity knows everything that will happen in time — including the response of every person to the gospel when it is presented to them. And His knowledge is not the knowledge of one who compels events but of one who sees the complete truth from above time. Like an observer standing on a mountain peak who sees an entire caravan in the valley below — a comprehensive view that does not cancel the freedom of each individual in the caravan. This complete eternal knowledge is what enables God to "appoint" the believers before creation — because He has always known who would believe in time. And this means His choice is not blind arbitrary selection but genuine knowledge of each real person.
Does "Foreknowledge as Basis of Election" Make God Dependent on Man?
The Calvinist objects: "If election is based on foreknowledge of faith, then God has become dependent on human decision — and this diminishes His sovereignty." But this objection confuses two fundamentally different things: actual dependency (in which God waits for the human to decide and then acts) and comprehensive knowledge (in which God knows in His eternity what freely happens in time without being the direct cause of every choice). God does not "wait" for human decision to know — He knows from eternity because He exists outside time. And His knowledge of a person's faith does not mean that faith comes from the person's own independent strength — it means God knows who will respond in faith when His Spirit works through the preached Word. The sovereignty includes His comprehensive knowledge of all free responses without eliminating them. And this position preserves three things simultaneously in biblical balance: the justice of God (because the person is accountable for his genuine choice), the love of God (because He created no one for destruction without cause), and the sovereignty of God (because His eternal knowledge encompasses all things without limitation).
"God Is No Respecter of Persons" and Election — No Contradiction
Peter declared with wonder: "Of a truth I perceive that God is no respecter of persons" (Acts 10:34). If Unconditional Election means choosing some and passing over others with absolutely no cause in the person — that is discrimination without reason, which is by definition "respect of persons." But election based on foreknowledge — where God chooses on the basis of His knowledge of their faith — represents no arbitrary discrimination because the basis exists and it is faith. This is how "no respecter of persons" harmonises perfectly with election by foreknowledge — while it flatly contradicts "Unconditional Election" in its Calvinist sense. The God who shows no partiality chooses on a consistent and knowable basis — the faith of the person in His Son.
Election "in Christ" — The Path to Being Chosen Is Faith
Ephesians 1:4 says "he hath chosen us in him before the foundation of the world." "In him" — in Christ. The election is not an election of individuals outside Christ which then places them into Him — the election itself is "in Christ." Christ is the primary and original Chosen One, and the believer is chosen by being "in Him." The path to being "in Christ" is faith. So whoever believed became "in Christ" and found himself within the chosen whom God knew in His eternal knowledge. This sequence fits perfectly with foreknowledge: God knows eternally who will be "in Christ" — and chooses them on the basis of that knowledge. And the door is open for everyone who believes to become "in Christ" — and when they believe they find that God has known and chosen them since eternity.
Pelagianism vs Foreknowledge — Two Completely Different Things
Calvinists warn that making foreknowledge of faith the basis of election leads to Pelagianism — the view that man saves himself by his own initiative. But the difference is fundamental. Pelagianism says faith comes from the person's own independent natural strength. Foreknowledge does not say this — it says God knows eternally who will respond in faith to His Spirit working through His Word. Faith itself is the fruit of God's grace at work — but God knows from eternity who will receive that grace and not resist it. This has nothing to do with Pelagianism. Calvinism and Pelagianism both err but in opposite directions: Pelagianism gave the human too much, and strict Calvinism gave God everything to the point of eliminating genuine human responsibility. The biblical position stands elsewhere: God works in sovereign fullness, the human responds in genuine responsibility, and faith is a divine grace the person freely receives.
"The Lord Knoweth Them That Are His" — Certainty from God's Knowledge
"The Lord knoweth them that are his." (2 Timothy 2:19). This word gives the believer deep peace. The Lord knows those who are His — not in the sense of a secret pre-birth list — but in the sense of the deep personal knowledge of the believer who has believed. And the seal that follows the verse reveals the human side: "Let every one that nameth the name of Christ depart from iniquity" — divine knowledge does not cancel the believer's responsibility to live a holy life. The believer rests secure because the Lord knows him and keeps him — not because he tallies up his own good works. And this divine knowledge is itself what chose him in eternity through foreknowledge of his faith.
Summary — Election by Foreknowledge Is Love That Knows, Not a Blind Decree
Biblical election by prior foreknowledge is not "dependence on the human" — it is the expression of an all-knowing God who chooses in the light of His complete knowledge rather than apart from it. God knows every person completely — and knows in His eternity who will believe in Christ when the gospel is presented to them — and chooses those believers for conformity to the image of His Son and for eternal glory. This election is genuine love for genuine persons — not an arbitrary classification of unknown numbers. And for the believer this teaching carries deep peace: his faith was not a surprise to God. God knew him from eternity, chose him in Christ, and will complete in his life what He began — "Being confident of this very thing, that he which hath begun a good work in you will perform it until the day of Jesus Christ" (Philippians 1:6). All glory belongs to God alone who saw in His eternal knowledge — and whose love for us existed before we existed ourselves.
Romans 8:29-30 — The Full Golden Chain from Foreknowledge to Glory
The complete chain of Romans 8:29-30 deserves careful attention: foreknew → predestinated → called → justified → glorified. Every link leads inevitably to the next. And the chain begins with foreknowledge — not with an arbitrary decree. Then predestination follows — "to be conformed to the image of his Son." The purpose of predestination is conformity to Christ, not merely being listed on a salvation register. Then calling comes — the actual presentation of the gospel to the person in time. Then justification — the moment of faith when the person is declared righteous before God. Then glorification — stated in the past tense as though it is already accomplished in God's eternal perspective. Every person who enters the first link enters the last. And this entire chain — from foreknowledge to glorification — is the biblical foundation of eternal security. The God who foreknew will not abandon His work halfway through.
Foreknowledge-Based Election Preserves the Genuine Universal Call
A theology of election by foreknowledge does not create tension with the universal gospel invitation — it resolves it. God sincerely calls all men everywhere to repent and believe (Acts 17:30), because the gospel is genuinely for all. And among those who hear, God in His eternal knowledge knows who will believe — and those He has chosen in His foreknowledge. So the preacher can stand before any audience and say with full sincerity: "Whoever believes will be saved — and God genuinely desires your salvation." He need not wonder whether some in his audience were "created for hell" or are outside the genuine offer. The offer is genuine for all; God's foreknowledge of the respondents does not restrict the offer — it simply means the Sovereign knows the outcome before the audience does.
Multiple New Testament Confirmations of Foreknowledge as Basis of Election
First Peter 1:2 — "elect according to the foreknowledge" — names foreknowledge explicitly as the basis. Romans 8:29 — "whom he did foreknow, he also did predestinate" — shows foreknowledge precedes predestination. Second Thessalonians 2:13 — "chosen... through belief of the truth" — shows faith is the channel of election's realisation. Ephesians 1:4 — "chosen in him" — shows election is tied to Christ and entered through union with Him by faith. Acts 15:18 — "Known unto God are all his works from the beginning" — shows God's foreknowledge is comprehensive and includes human actions and responses. This is not one isolated verse — it is a consistent New Testament pattern across five different writers (Peter, Paul in Romans, Paul in Thessalonians, Paul in Ephesians, James's council citation) all pointing in the same direction: election is grounded in and consistent with God's foreknowledge.
The Practical Comfort — God Knew You Before You Knew Him
For the believer, this truth carries a specific and deep comfort. Your faith was not a surprise to God. Your coming to Christ — perhaps unexpected to you, perhaps through a long struggle — was seen by Him in His eternal knowledge before the foundation of the world. He did not choose you arbitrarily or by lot. He knew you — your name, your struggle, your response — and on the basis of that eternal foreknowledge He chose you in Christ to be conformed to His Son's image. This makes the election deeply personal, not institutional. And it grounds assurance not in the impersonal mechanism of an irresistible decree, but in the personal, knowing love of a God who saw you and chose you. "The Lord knoweth them that are his" (2 Timothy 2:19) — and that knowing is the foundation of an eternal security that no one can take from you. The election is not a mystery you have to solve before you dare to believe — it is a certainty you discover after you believe, and it grows richer and deeper the longer you walk with Him.
The God of Scripture Knows You and Calls You — Answer Now
If you have not yet believed in Christ, know this: God's foreknowledge is not a closed door but an open one. He knows who will believe — and the question is whether you will be among them. The invitation is genuine: "Whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved." (Romans 10:13). The moment you believe in the Lord Jesus Christ, you step into the scope of His eternal election — and discover that He knew you before you knew Him. "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved." (Acts 16:31).
We encourage you to begin reading the Gospel of John for yourself, and to continue in the Word of God in the King James Version — the truest and purest Word of God in the world — and in the Van Dyck in Arabic, both found on this website (alinjil.com). May God bless you as you come to Him in faith.
An Invitation to Receive Divine Salvation — Accept The Lord Jesus Christ as Your Personal Saviour
Dear reader — if these words have touched your heart and you have recognised that you are a sinner in need of a Saviour, know that God is calling you to Himself in this very moment. You do not need a priest, or a human mediator, or a holy place, or rituals or works. The Lord Jesus Christ paid the full price on the cross, and the promise of God is certain and clear:
What saves you is not the words of this prayer — but the faith in your heart that the Lord Jesus Christ died for you and rose from the dead. But if you want to express your faith in sincere words, read this prayer with a humble heart as though you are speaking to the living God:
The Prayer of Salvation
"O Great, Holy, and Loving True God,
I come to You now with complete humility, confessing that I am a sinner. I have broken Your commandments many times in my thoughts, in my words, and in my deeds. I know that my sin deserves eternal death and eternal separation from You. I have no good work I can offer that is able to redeem my soul, and no righteousness of my own to cover my nakedness before Your holiness.
But I believe with all my heart in the testimony of Your Word that Your only Son, the Lord Jesus Christ, died on the cross for my sins — bearing in my place the punishment I deserved. I believe that He was buried, and that He rose from the dead on the third day, alive and victorious over death and the grave, and that He is alive now unto the ages of ages.
In this blessed moment, I receive the Lord Jesus Christ as my personal Saviour. I trust in Him alone — not in my works, not in my religion, not in rituals or any person or angel or saint. On the Lord Jesus Christ alone, and on His precious blood shed on the cross, I build the hope of my eternal salvation.
I thank You, my Father, that You have now received me in the Lord Jesus Christ, and have forgiven all my sins, and have given me eternal life as a free gift by Your grace. I thank You that You have sent Your Holy Ghost to dwell in my heart, bearing witness to me that I have become Your child. Give me grace to know You more day by day, and to live the rest of my life for Your glory alone.
I pray all this in the name of my Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ, by the power of the Holy Ghost. Amen."
After You Have Prayed — What Now?
If you prayed this prayer from a truly believing heart, the greatest miracle in all your history has happened in this moment: you have passed from death to life, from darkness to light, from the kingdom of sin into the kingdom of the beloved Son of God. You have become a child of the living God, and God's own promise guarantees this to you in His trustworthy Word:
Notice the power of this promise: "gave he power" — a settled right, guaranteed, not a wish or a possibility. And notice "them that believe on his name" — not "those who performed great deeds," not "those who completed rituals," but simply "them that believe." You are now one of them — with absolute certainty.
Here are five simple steps to establish you in your new life with the Lord Jesus Christ:
First — Read the King James Bible every day. Begin with the Gospel of John, then continue through the rest of the New Testament, then the Psalms and Proverbs. God speaks to you through His Word as a father speaks with his son. Do not read quickly — read with meditation and prayer. "The holy scriptures, which are able to make thee wise unto salvation" (2 Timothy 3:15).
Second — Pray every day. Speak to God as a loving Father — not with memorised words, but with words from your heart. Share with Him your joys and sorrows and questions and fears. Prayer is the breathing of the Christian life. "Pray without ceasing" (1 Thessalonians 5:17).
Third — Join a Bible-believing church. Do not walk this road alone. Faith grows in the fellowship of believers, where the Word is preached faithfully and baptism and the Lord's Supper are practised according to the King James Bible. "Not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together" (Hebrews 10:25).
Fourth — Be baptised according to the King James Bible. Baptism is not a condition for salvation, but it is the first step of obedience after faith. It is a public declaration that you died with the Lord Jesus Christ and were buried with Him and rose with Him to a new life. "He that believeth and is baptized shall be saved" (Mark 16:16) — faith first, then baptism as its natural fruit.
Fifth — Witness to others about the Lord Jesus Christ. What you have experienced of salvation and love cannot remain hidden. Begin with your family and friends. Tell them simply and honestly how the Lord Jesus Christ changed your life. "That which we have seen and heard declare we unto you" (1 John 1:3).
And finally, remember always that your salvation is not built on your feelings or on any work you perform — but on the unchanging promise of God:
"These things have I written unto you that believe on the name of the Son of God; that ye may know that ye have eternal life."
— 1 John 5:13
Notice: "that ye may know" — not "that ye may hope," not "that ye may wish," not "that ye may wait in anxious fear." But that ye may know with complete, unshakeable certainty that you have eternal life. This is the difference between all the world's religions and the Gospel of the Lord Jesus Christ: religions say "work and perhaps you will be saved" — and the Word of God alone says: "believe and know that you are saved."
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"Likewise, I say unto you, there is joy in the presence of the angels of God over one sinner that repenteth." — Luke 15:10